OakPark.com's Melissa Black Ford on TME "Filling A Need"

The Momtrepreneur Exchange Mixing Moms and Business
By Melissa Black Ford, OakPark.com
Parent Educator/Coach

The Momtrepreneur Exchange, a real live (I’m tired of virtual) meetup group for women with ‘business” on their minds, is the brainchild (no pun intended) of Jill Salzman.  It all started when Jill wanted to get together with entrepreneurs, who were also moms, for a cup of coffee and discuss how to support each other in business.  Today?  There are over 200 Oak Park Exchange members and over 1,300 members in 27 cities including Brisbane, Australia.  Clearly, Jill is filling a need.

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Crib Sheet #59: PositivelyWed.com and MommyBusinessMentor.com's Dina Eisenberg.

Dina is an outstanding example of go-get-’em-ness.  Her inexhaustible enthusiasm combined with endless entrepreneurial possibilities makes for one impressive momtrepreneur.  How do I know?  She happens to host The Momtrepreneur Exchange: Boston, along with the list of endeavors she’s already involved in.

What business did you start up?

PositivelyWed.com is an online mentoring site for wedding professionals who want to have happier, more profitable businesses.  I offer free tele-classes, a mentoring club called the Communal Table and products that grow your business step-by-step.  Very exciting stuff is going on! Read more

The Momtrepreneur Update #5

OPPORTUNITIES:

1. Moms in the City is a networking and resource site meant to jumpstart a city mom’s social life.  Stay informed of events and deals while making new mom friends at the same time.  They’re looking for guest bloggers who want to share their city experiences or stories.  Email Krishana at momsinthecity.net@gmail.com to get your blogging on.

2. DailyCandy’s Start Small, Grow Big contest is up and running.  Please enter your company to win $10,000 smackers. Read more

Sonsi Partners With 9 Momtrepreneur Exchanges

This just in.  How excited am I?  Sonsi serves up dress-for-success brands for plus-size women and offers a social community where you can chat, post and interact with members of their site.  I first read about them in the New York Times and am thrilled that they’ve come on board to support 9 of our Momtrepreneur Exchanges.

I could tell you all about it myself, but Sonsi did such a good job writing up on it that I’m going to slap their press release right here for you…

Breaking News: Sonsi Teams Up With The Momtrepreneur Maven

Sonsi is excited to announce our NEW partnership with The Momtrepreneur Maven! We will be officially sponsoring 9 Momtreprenuer Exchanges coast to coast…

Recently we shared a cup of coffee over the phone with Jill Salzman, the official Momtrepreneur Maven.  In a nutshell,  Jill co-organizes Momtrepreneur Exchanges in cities around the globe to bring momtrepreneurs together, live and in-person, to network, learn and exchange with one another.  Recently profiled in A Cup of Cappucino for The Entrepreneur’s Spirit Volume II, Jill also speaks to corporations, universities and other organizations about why everyone should be paying more attention to their mothers. Read more

Crib Sheet #51: MyMompreneur.com's Holly Suso.

My doppelganger apparently lives in the Bay Area.  Holly’s background in web development enables her to offer Twitter and Facebook classes, along with an entire online community for momtrepreneurs.  She’s so inspiring that I vow to skip the mompreneur vs. momtrepreneur debate on this one.  Just this once.  For 3 hours.

What business did you start up?

Mymompreneur.com is a network of mom entrepreneurs dedicated to providing a community for women seeking sisterhood, professional growth, and work-life balance while remaining true to their values. Our online MyMompreneur.com online magazine features stories of success, challenge, and empowerment for all levels of entrepreneurs, from the person with a desire to start their own business to the successful leader wishing to mentor others. Read more

Money Smart Week: My First Book Signing!

How much do you love that Money Smart Week is going on right after taxes are due?

I’m doing my first book signing!  My first book signing!  Since being profiled in A Cup of Cappucino For The Entrepreneur’s Spirit (Vol II), I will be speaking at Money Smart Week’s April 21 lunchtime event and signing copies of the book.  I’ve been practicing my autograph for weeks and I may have juuuuuust right by Wednesday.   (My husband actually asked me who I was seeing, what with the hearts that I started drawing around my own initials.)  Read more

Crib Sheet #49: BellyButtonBoutique.com's Karla Trotman.

Karla inherited the entrepreneurial drive from a previous generation of movers and shakers; her parents are both entrepreneurs.  This momtrepreneur turned her uncomfortable life experience into an online place of comfort for expecting women…(presumably all carrying future entrepreneurs).

What business did you start up?

BellyButtonBoutique.com, an online store that offers products of comfort and support for pre- and postnatal women.

What motivated you to do it?

One long and miserable pregnancy!  I couldn’t get comfortable Read more

A Cup of Cappucino For The Entrepreneur's Spirit.

Can I throw humility out the window at holiday time?

I was just profiled in a brand new book.  A Cup of Cappucino For The Entrepreneur’s Spirit (Vol II) is now published and on sale thanks to the wonderful folks (especially Cindy Thompson) at Entrepreneur Enterprises.  It’s chock full of stories by and about entrepreneurs of all shapes and sizes.  Makes for an interesting read over the holiday season–you can revv up on your momtrepreneurial spirit by checking out these profiles!

Happy Holidays, all.

Crib Sheet #39: One Tiny Suitcase's Stacey Corbett.

Why didn’t I know about this business when my kiddo was a baby??  I’d have moved to Canada immediately had I known.  Kudos to Stacey for creating a company to serve every new mom in need.

What business did you start up?

One Tiny Suitcase – a baby equipment rental company serving clients in Calgary & Edmonton, Alberta in Canada .

What motivated you to do it?

Traveling with my twins when they were just babies made me realize how unrealistic it was to be able to bring all the gear we needed with us. I wish there had been a company like mine when I traveled to visit my parents.

How many children do you have, and how old are they?

My twins (boy/girl) are 5 now.

How long have you been running your business?

My business opened in May 2006 and I am now starting my 4th year in business.

How long did it take you to start becoming profitable and/or successful, however you choose to measure success?

My rate of growth has been in direct relation to how old my children are. I started the business in part so that I could be home with them. I couldn’t grow the business as fast as I wanted to then, but now that they are starting school I have been able to do things like open a second location, expand my product range, etc. One Tiny Suitcase was profitable after the first 2 years of running it very part time.

How did your family react to you starting your own business?

I don’t come from a family of entrepreneurs and I left what my dad considered a really good job (good pay, pension, etc.). In the end, my family supported my decision to try and create a business that supported my desire to stay at home with the twins for as long as I could. There have been ups and downs but I know I can always count on my family to help me out when the hiccups happen.

Easiest part of your job?

The best part: talking to excited families about their upcoming family vacations. Grandparents are always so excited when they have a baby coming to stay with them, too.

Hardest part of your job?

The hardest part: running a home-based business, I have some customers that pick up gear from me directly. Making sure the dog, kids and husband are quiet when someone is at my door as well as having the house clean and presentable is tough.

What skill would you most like to improve?

My sales skills! I have a hard time really ‘selling’. I like talking to my customers and making recommendations for gear I think would help them enjoy their vacation but there isn’t a lot of ‘up-selling’ going on. My customers appreciate that I am a mom as well and can relate to the stress of traveling with young children.

What, if any, tools or advice do you wish you knew then that you know now?

In the beginning I kept telling myself that I would ‘try’ running this business. I always wanted to give myself a way out if things didn’t work as expected. I know now that as long as you are willing to change and adapt when plans don’t go as you thought they would, you can be successful. The ideal business I pictured in my mind when I started is not the business I am running today but that ‘imaginary’ business just wasn’t profitable.  If I had stuck to that ‘ideal’ I would be out of business today.

Can you recommend 3 essential websites for moms in, or going into, business?

BizyMoms.com
Lisa Druxman’s column on being a Momtrepreneur
TheMompreneur.com – Calgary’s local resource for everything mom and business.

What is the accomplishment you are most proud of?

I’m really proud of some of the press coverage I been able to get for One Tiny Suitcase. My kids have been able to participate in some of the television and print coverage. They are always so impressed when they see pictures of themselves on TV or in the newspaper. That’s cool! Getting PR coverage is hard work but that hard work has resulted in a lot of free advertising I could have never afforded.

Favorite part of a typical day?

Typical? There is nothing typical about a day running One Tiny Suitcase, raising twins, preparing meals, cleaning the house, walking the dog. I like the unpredictability of each day.  I wouldn’t have it any other way.

A few more questions, just because American Express should be featuring more momtrepreneurs…

Childhood ambition….to become a lawyer.
Fondest memory….finding out my husband and I were having twins.
Indulgence….my dog walkers, they help keep me (and my dog) sane during the week.
Last purchase…..expensive facial cream (on Ebay).
Favorite magazine…..In Style, totally not work-related, full of stilettos I will never wear, and a great escape.
Inspiration…..successful entrepreneurs who have made it big.
My Life…is going in the exact direction I want it to. My goals are in sight!

Crib Sheet #36: The Shower Hug's Andria Sgro.

Two sisters who run a company together while living 3,000 miles apart are a true testament to the true willpower of momtrepreneurs everywhere.  And how could you not love their product?  They’ve Saved The Tatas in a whole new way!

What business did you start up?

My sister and I founded and run Belmama & Cherub™ and are the creators of The Shower Hug™.  The Shower Hug is a bandeau wrap worn around the bustline of pregnant and breastfeeding mothers to support, soothe and protect sore breasts and nipples associated with pregnancy, childbirth and breastfeeding.  Moms wear it inside or outside of the shower to provide a myriad of soothing benefits.

What motivated you to do it?

Oh-so-sore boobs after having my first son! I never would have imagined that showering would become so difficult and uncomfortable after the arrival of baby or that my breasts would hurt so badly!    Lingering in long, hot showers is a favorite retreat of mine, but the force of the shower spray hitting my tender breasts was too painful to tolerate in the days after I gave birth to Jackson.  My breasts were engorged and tender and my nipples were cracked and bleeding.  I had looked forward to the solitude and serenity of a long, hot shower all day, but as soon as I stepped in, I was hurrying to get out.  My doctor advised holding a towel over my chest when showering, which was not practical and made tons of extra laundry.  I tried dodging the shower sprays by keeping my back to the streams, which did not allow me to easily shampoo, shave, etc.  And, I shopped and shopped and shopped, looking for a product that would help me.  My search revealed there was no such product to treat this problem, one that so many mothers quietly struggle through.

As the saying goes “necessity breeds invention” and as a born problem-solver, I was determined to create a solution.   I founded Belmama & Cherub and began production of the Shower Hug in 2006, just one day after my son’s first birthday.

How many children do you have, and how old are they?

I have one little boy, Jackson, 4, and one little girl, Maria, who just turned 2.  They are the light of my life and joy of my days.  My sister and partner, Alaina, has three beautiful and spirited girls, Femia 8, Rea, 6 and Veronica 2.   Can you imagine the noise in the background of our phone calls!?!

How long have you been running your business?

Three years…since April, 2006.  The first 10 months or so were solely dedicated to research and development.  We introduced The Shower Hug to market in February, 2007.

How long did it take you to start becoming profitable and/or successful, however you choose to measure success?

The Shower Hug is profitable, although we choose to re-invest the great bulk of our profits in order to grow the business, advertise (advertising expense adds up quickly… ad costs are large, and from what we have learned, require repetition to bear the desired results), etc…

How did your family react to you starting your own business?

The fact that my sister became my partner is probably enough to answer this question!  They could not have been more supportive.  My Mom actually came up with our trademark name “The Shower Hug.”

Easiest part of your job?

Working with other moms, women who have “been there” and “done that” – even right down to our customers!  There seems to be an innate understanding.

Hardest part of your job?

My sister and I both work from home offices.  Alaina’s is in NJ.  Mine is in CA.  Geographical distance and a three-hour time change can sometimes be difficult, especially when you add maintaining the schedules of 5 children under the age of 8 to the mix.  This is simply a logistical hiccup and a reality of being moms, but we make it work!    More seriously, the thing that is toughest about being a small company is being able to source quality materials made here in the USA (one of our goals is to remain “Made in the USA”) that are cost-effective and competitive.

What skill would you most like to improve?

I am a Wharton grad and CPA.  The fine art of “sales” is beyond me.  I have not mastered “the pitch” and doubt I ever will!  Thankfully, this is an area where Alaina excels.

What, if any, tools or advice do you wish you knew then that you know now?

The advice I would share with new mom entrepreneurs is two-fold:

1)  Don’t begin your venture until you have done your homework – research your idea, your market, your competition, your potential suppliers, your potential customers and your potential costs and profitability.  Create prototypes and test them!  Use them in a way your future customers will.  In this way, you will validate your idea/product/service and you will also identify weaknesses/flaws that may need tending to.  This provides a solid base of factual data upon which to build your venture and the peace of mind in knowing that you are well prepared for the journey ahead.

2)  Keep your initial focus narrow enough to be manageable.  Mom entrepreneurs often deal with limited resources in terms of finances, time and energy.  To successfully achieve our goals, Alaina and I keep  short “to-do” lists that are highly prioritized.  Realize that although you may be a supermom, you still need to sleep at night.

What is the accomplishment you are most proud of?

Without a doubt, the greatest “things” I ever created are my children.   My heart is so full of emotion and pride as I watch them grow, learn and become good little citizens of our world.

Favorite part of a typical day?

My favorite part of a typical day is the quietude of early morning – just before dawn.  I am rested, energetic and excited about the adventure and promise of a new day!  I take great pleasure in my morning ritual of opening the shutters and windows, making coffee and checking email.  I do this all by my lonesome in a house that is quiet and still.   Nirvana!  Admittedly, I also cannot wait to see my children when they awake shortly thereafter, with tousled hair, groggy voices and abundant hugs and kisses for Mama.  It’s like Christmas…every morning.  Then all hell breaks loose…in a good way!

A few more questions, just because American Express should be featuring more momtrepreneurs…

Childhood ambition…. I always wanted to be an Entrepreneur – I actually wrote a paper on it when I was 12 years old.  I also love to write.

Fondest memory…. I am blessed to have many fond memories competing to be included here.  One such memory is being part of a really special group of girls made up of my two sisters, a few other friends and me.  When we were young, we all summered at a little beach town in NJ called Lavallette.  Lavallette was the kind of beach that had really thick, granular sand that stayed warm long into the summer night.  It was so soft, that you would sink in ankle-deep when you walked on it and it made a cushion if you fell in it – just like powdery snow.  The girls and I loved to meet at the beach in the evening and make pyramids (the kind gymnasts do by climbing on each others’ backs).  We would see how long we could last and how tall we could go and inevitably tumble down into the forgiving sand…happy times.

Indulgence….deep tissue massages and iced mochas!

Last purchase…..supplies for my 2 year old’s upcoming birthday party favorite.

Magazine…..Real Simple.

Inspiration….my Mom.  She is amazing.

My Life…..this story is still being written.  There proves to be lots of surprises with every new chapter.  Just when I get comfortable…ouch!  Enter a growing pain.

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